![]() It may not feel like it, but time, truthfully, is on our side. Bad days are part of a longer journey, and it absolutely will get better. We should try to maintain a patient and gentle approach to this fact. The point of repeating these numbers is simply to emphasize that healing can take time. Of course, every person is unique, as are their relationships. Unsurprisingly, it’s around this same time (just over the three-month mark) that another survey said people start dating someone else in a real way, in which they’re focused on the new situation more than the old. According to one study published in the Journal of Positive Psychology, more than 70 percent of participants took a little less than three months to move on or “see the positive aspects from their breakup” and to feel goal-oriented and like they’d experienced personal growth. When people are struggling after a relationship ends, their first question is often “how long will this last?” Of course, there is no magic formula to answer this question. Instead, we can show ourselves the kindness and treatment that we would a friend – an acknowledgment of what we feel paired with the reality-check that it will pass. ![]() Neither denying the feeling nor allowing ourselves to ruminate in it offers us the freedom we need to move on. One of the best ways to deal with the reality of that pain is to meet it with compassion. No matter how many people have been down this road before us, this moment we’re living through is probably a painful place to be. Getting started:īefore we get into the tools and techniques for how to move on, I hope that anyone reading this would take a second to allow themselves to have feeling for the fact that this is hard. And when they do, they leave behind lessons, actual, tangible, lived-experience ways to heal. The good news is that, although it takes time, people are able to move on. ![]() Recently, it was discovered that, on average, people spend about 18 months of their lives getting over breakups. One thing that we are not is alone in our suffering. And while each of us moves on in our own way and on our own time, one truth is almost universal: we all face this challenge at some point in our lives. Moving on from a relationship is one of the most difficult transitions in a person’s life. Relationship Advice, Relationships, Uncategorizedīy Carolyn Joyce “Life always waits for some crisis to occur before revealing itself at its most brilliant.” ~ Paulo Coelho ![]()
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